culture consumed (July, 2025)
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- Changelings: An Autistic Trans Anthology edited by Ryan Vale and Ocean Riley (2023) -- a trans-masc and non-binary anthology, though apparently Extraterrestrials, the trans-fem and non-binary anthology they worked on next, is in fact in progress (I reached out to Ryan the weekend I started reading it, and he said, "We are currently in the editing stages and are hoping to publish by the end of 2025.")
- Rules for Ghosting by Shelly Jay Shore (2024) -- bisexual Jewish trans boy who can see ghosts
- Redefining Realness: My Path to Womanhood, Identity, Love & So Much More by Janet Mock (2014) [reread] & Surpassing Certainty: What My Twenties Taught Me by Janet Mock (2017)
- Late June I read Beneath Strange Lights by Vivian Valentine (2023), and July I read the next 2 books in the Amelia Temple series -- Against Fearful Lies by Vivian Moira Valentine (2024) and Along Torturous Paths by Vivian Moira Valentine (2025).
- [Aug 14 local library LGBTQ+ book group] The Sapling Cage by Margaret Killjoy -- my suggestion (and The Transfeminine Review 2024 Reader's Choice Award winner for Outstanding Fantasy -- and shortlisted for TFR’s Best Transfeminine Fiction of 2024 Award)
- Recognize Fascism: A Science Fiction and Fantasy Anthology edited by Crystal M. Huff (2022)
- [July 30 "June" DEI book club -- Pride Month] The Magic Fish by Trung Le Nguyen (2020) -- YA fiction, graphic novel, gay son of Vietnamese immigrants
film
- Sinners
- Ironheart episodes 3-6 with Abby
I decided I wanted us to watch the second half of the miniseries together (because the developments were stressing me out), so we watched the remainder when we visited my family in St. Louis.
- visiting the niblings, I saw:
- the first episode of Mermicorno: Starfall -- which reminded me a bit of My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic and She-Ra and the Princesses of Power
- a bunch of SpongeBob SquarePants -- which I learned does not bring me joy
- some of The Gilded Age with my SiL
- T.O.T.S. -- taking literally the idea that storks bring babies? It does eventually have an episode about adoption(?) -- about how love is what makes a family and babies don't have to be the same species as their parents. I don't know if it ever has explicitly same-sex parents (I think the ~adoption episode included single-parent families -- I was only partially watching by that point because I was really done with the show being on).
I'm clearly not intended to think too hard about any of it. There's an episode where they note that baby bunnies come in large batches -- but then each bunny goes to a different family*, and the big conflict to be resolved in the episode is that they get the babies mixed up and need to figure out which one goes to which family ... because one of the families is like, "Nope, that's not our baby." Which, given that the babies literally get delivered by bird like a package delivery service, raises a lot of questions about how babies work in this world -- questions which I am sure we're not supposed to think too hard about.
*I'm pretty sure there was a previous episode where they have a bunch of ducklings to deliver to one family. But I guess since many animals have large batches of babies they can't really hew close to accuracy within the conceit of the show. Though it still felt weird to me to nod to the fact that bunnies are known for having large batches of babies and then not have the bunnies have big families.
There's also an episode with a baby skunk who's too stinky to play with. And, like, that's not how skunks work. It feels like they took one piece of info a child might know ("bunnies have lots of babies," "skunks are stinky," "whales are big" -- omg, it literally only just occurred to me that they have a blue whale baby just hanging out not in water) and decided to build an episode around it.
art
- Saint Louis Art Museum
My brother and sister-in-law took the kids to Family Sunday—Animals in Art, and Abby and I came with (the museum is free).
The special exhibit was Roaring: Art, Fashion, and the Automobile in France, 1918–1939 -- many of which are words relevant to Abby's interests. So I bought us tickets. It's timed entry, and the soonest entry available was 2:45pm. It was about 2:05pm, so we went down one level to Islamic Art & Textiles (er, 2 separate exhibits -- though much of the textiles was, in fact, Islamic), since hanging out with the niblings while they cut out felt to make animals was not super of interest to us.We entered the timed-entry exhibit a little early and finished it about 4 pm?
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Currently Reading:
[bff book club] Saving Our Own Lives: A Liberatory Practice of Harm Reduction by Shira Hassan (with Foreword by adrienne maree brown & Introduction by Tourmaline) (2022) -- the chapters are generally short, and the book is long, so we'll be reading this low-key forever (and due to my travels, we missed a couple weeks in July)
[Aug 10 feminist sff book club] Some Desperate Glory by Emily Tesh (2023)
[Aug 22 work book club] Water Moon by Samantha Sotto Yambao (2025)
Polywise: A Deeper Dive into Navigating Open Relationships by Jessica Fern, with David Cooley (2023) -- which is about transitions, hahahacrolol (Abby has a new LDR, and I have experienced lots of jealousy and insecurity and stress and grief about that change in our relationship; and then by the time I gave Abby a copy of this book for her birthday, we had mutually decided to intentionally scale back/restructure our relationship, at least on a trial basis, in the hopes that that will enable us to preserve the good things about this relationship while easing some of what's been stressing this relationship)
Reading Next:
I'm already reading/done with most of my few August book club books, see above. DEI book club is gonna do a disability book for August (we skipped July, which is Disability Pride Month, and August doesn't have much in the way of identity/heritage months) but we haven't listed nominations yet.
New program year book club lists haven't come out for my library book clubs, but I checked the events calendar, and Read the Rainbow (Sept 2) is Blackouts by Justin Torres (2023), and climate change book club facilitator thought September was gonna be What If We Get It Right?: Visions of Climate Futures by Ayana Elizabeth Johnson (2024) when I asked her before our summer break.
August Out of Your League [OOYL] book club is The Other Olympians: Fascism, Queerness, and the Making of Modern Sports by Michael Waters (2024) -- shout-out to being a Lambda Literary finalist!
Book club is only for paid subscribers, and I don't wanna give more money to Substack** [I do currently give money to Erin Reed, to support her trans journalism], so I'm holding out for their promised shift to Beehiiv, and am hoping that happens before this [Aug 31] book club.
**Substack continues to have a Nazi problem. Literally on Tuesday of this week I saw a post on my Bluesky feed about someone getting a hate speech push notification from Substack.
And then on Wednesday I saw a link to a Patreon post about assorted recent hate speech push notifications from Substack (content warning: there's a swastika image right at the top of this post, which I did not appreciate), and how the algorithmic recommendations mean that people will get suggested white supremacists blogs on "rising" lists, etc.
The Patreon article talks a little about how many users stay on Substack because there aren't better alternatives, but Leave Substack Dot Com asserts that there are viable alternatives. (Lol that their section on Ghost includes "A Bluesky thread from a user who moved from Substack to Ghost." That's Rabbi Danya Ruttenberg. I have heard of no one in their "Who Else Has Migrated Away? Notable examples include" list, but I have very much heard of her.)